💍 Do You Really Need a Wedding Videographer?
Spoiler alert: not always. But here’s why you probably will wish you had one.
March 22nd 2025
The Honest Truth? It Depends.
Before I stepped into the world of filming weddings, I had the same impression many people do: a guy in the back with a bulky camera, an awkward spotlight, and zero vibes. It felt more like surveillance than storytelling.
But the game has changed—and so has the standard.
Now, wedding videography isn’t just a box to tick. It’s an experience. A luxury. A way to relive every emotion, sound, and sweet detail in a way photos simply can’t capture.
That said, let me be upfront:
No, not everyone needs a wedding videographer.
Sounds strange coming from someone who literally does this for a living, right? But stay with me…
When It’s Okay to Skip the Film
If you’re the kind of couple that just wants to soak up every second without the fuss of cameras, that’s absolutely valid.
Maybe you’re more into creating a dream atmosphere or curating a showstopping grazing table. Maybe you just don’t feel the need to record everything. Your day is yours to design, and not everyone values a film the same way.
But Here’s What No One Tells You Until It’s Too Late…
Ask any married couple what they wish they’d done differently, and you’ll hear this over and over:
“I regret not having video footage of our day.”
The vows you carefully wrote, the way your partner looked at you down the aisle, your best friend’s speech that had everyone crying-laughing… You might think you’ll remember it all, but the day moves fast. Faster than you’d ever expect.
A photo will show you a moment.
A film lets you feel it again.
Below is behind the scenes footage of myself at a recent styled shoot
Our Goal? Make You Feel Something
At Xiarm Films & Photography, our films are about more than coverage, they’re about connection.
We don’t just record your wedding. We create a visual story that’s cinematic, emotional, and completely personal to you. One groom once told us he didn’t even know the couple in one of our videos, yet he felt like he did.
That’s the power of doing it right.
Film completes the story.
Think of It as a Luxury Keepsake—Not Just a Cost
We’re not here to pressure you. If your budget doesn’t allow, that’s okay. But if you’re on the fence—if you’re thinking about it—this is your gentle nudge.
Videography is like an emotional insurance policy.
You may not watch it every week, but when you do, you’ll be so glad you have it.
In Summary
So, is hiring a wedding videographer necessary? No, not for everyone.
But for couples who want to truly relive their day—the sounds, the emotions, the tiny, magical in-betweens—it’s one of the most priceless investments you can make.
And if you’re still unsure, come watch some of our films. We’ll let the stories speak for themselves.
